大学是很多年轻人的梦想,因为通过大学学习,年轻人可以获得更多的知识、更高的学历,更重要的是,大学为年轻人提供了更加独立自由的舞台以及更加多元的环境、生活同伴。作为这些美好事物的副产品,我们在体验自我独立、社会多元的同时,可能也会常常感到不适,比如,会怀念过去父母、老师安排的固定生活,感慨过去同学之间的单纯情谊……进入一个新环境,难免要面对两个基本问题:一个是日程的重组或时间的打发问题,一个是人际关系的重组或与他人相处的问题。正如著名哲学家马 University is the dream of many young people, because through university studies, young people can gain more knowledge and higher academic qualifications. More importantly, the university provides young people with a more independent stage and a more diversified environment and life companion. As a by-product of these beautiful things, we may experience frequent discomfort while experiencing self-independence and social diversity. For example, we may miss the fixed lives arranged by our parents and teachers in the past and feel the simple friendship between our students in the past ... The new environment will inevitably face two basic problems: one is the rescheduling or the passing of time, the other is the reorganization or interpersonal relationship. Just as the famous philosopher Ma