我们一般容易接受自我批评,却对来自他人的批评极为反感,甚至听到批评就会立即启动自我保护程序,迅速产生抵触、不满和反击的心理。且慢,批评并非空穴来风,别急着抵触与反击,不妨先去看看批评的背后是什么……在东方卫视《舞林大会》节目上,演员董艺薇的脚受了伤,但她仍带伤上场,跳完舞后摔倒在地。评委金星当即批评道:“你有做戏的成分!如果你真带伤的话,要么中途早下,要么就坚持到后台再倒,哪怕抬下去也是英雄。而你却偏偏选择表演结束后倒在观众面前,有博取同情分的嫌疑!”董艺 We are generally receptive to self-criticism but are extremely averse to criticisms from others. Even when we hear criticisms, we immediately start the self-protection process, rapidly creating the mentality of conflict, dissatisfaction and counterattack. And slow, criticism is not groundless, do not rush to resist and counterattack, may wish to see what is behind the criticism ... ... In the Dragon TV “Dragon Dance Convention” program, actor Dong Yiwei’s foot was injured, but she was still injured After the jump dance fell to the ground. Judge Venus immediately criticized: “You have the ingredients! If you really hurt, either halfway, or persist in the background and then down, even if it is also a hero to lift down, but you just choose the performance after the end of the fall In front of the audience, there is suspicion of gaining sympathy points! ”Dong Yi