“养不教,父之过;教不严,师之惰。”当拼爹、坑爹成为网络热词的时候,家庭教育便成为人们热议的话题。毋庸置疑,家庭教育中存在的种种溺爱、专断、缺乏沟通,使得孩子们养成自私、乖戾的性格,交往损友,在本该及时悬崖勒马的时候,无人及时关注和制止,跌进犯罪深渊。但同时,我们也不得不承认“孟母三迁”的合理性——虽 “When you do not teach, your father is over; you are not strict with your teaching and your teacher’s laziness.” “When spelling daddy and pit father become the online hot words, family education has become a hot topic for people. Undoubtedly, all kinds of spoiled, dictatorial and lack of communication in family education make children develop selfish and obscene characters and make friends with friends. In the absence of a timely manner, no one should pay close attention and stop in time to fall into the abyss of crime . However, at the same time, we also have to admit that the rationality of ”three mothers and three mothers moved" - though