有书云:想改造男人的女人,是世上最愚蠢的女人。此话差矣,太“男权主义”了。事实上,不完美的男人,最需要女人们改造,而能改造这类男人的女人,却是最最聪慧的女人。先生就是需要我这般女人感化与改造的男人。 There is a book saying that the woman who wants to transform a man is the stupidest woman in the world. This remark is worse, too “male-dominated.” In fact, the imperfect man most needs the transformation of women, but the woman who can transform such men is the most intelligent woman. My husband is a man who needs the help and transformation of a woman like me.