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1.关注。留意他人的处境。在公共场所大声打电话便是没有关注,其他人可能受到骚扰。2.肯定他人的存在价值。插队不单浪费排队人的时间,而且是否定他人的存在。否定往往引发冲突。3.往好处想。先往人家的好处想,不单令自己的心灵保持纯真,也会让对方更真诚地与您相处。有人说,接待陌生人,无意中便接待了天使。4.聆听。当我们打断人家的说话、抢着提出自己的论点时,不单显示我们不耐烦,而且反映我们有“自恋”倾向,要将灯光移到自己头上。
Attention Pay attention to the situation of others. Calling loudly in public places is not paying attention and other people may be harassed. 2. Affirming the existence value of others. Skip the queue not only a waste of time, but also denied the existence of others. Negation often leads to conflict. Think about the benefits The benefits of going to others first Think, not only to maintain their own innocence, but also make each other more sincerely get along with you. Someone said that receiving strangers inadvertently received the angel. Listen. When we interrupt people’s speech and rush forward to make our own arguments, we not only show that we are impatient but also reflect our tendency to “narcissize” to shift the light to ourselves.