根据一项调查显示,目前大多数城市儿童的青春期已经提前到小学四五年级。青春期所带来的生理转变、情感波动,对孩子的冲击很大,而这个时候父母如果仍然只强调好好学习、完成好作业,却忽视孩子学习之外的其他生活与情感需要,就会引起孩子强烈的反感与抵触,长此下去就会形成父辈与子辈之间不可填补的鸿沟。在这个 According to a survey, the majority of adolescent urban children have advanced to the fourth and fifth graders. Physiological changes brought by adolescence, emotional fluctuations, a great impact on children, but this time if parents still stress only to study, to finish their homework, but neglected other learning needs of life and emotions, it will cause children Strong objectionable and contradictory, the long run will form an irreplaceable gap between parents and their children. at this