家长发现孩子私自拿了不属于自己的东西,首先要做的不是责骂孩子,更不是给孩子贴上“小偷”的标签,正确的做法是先了解孩子出现此种行为的原因,满足孩子的内心需求,然后再告诉孩子正确的解决问题的方法,建立规则意识。上小学的孩子,有的可能会发生不告诉他人或是不经过他人的允许而拿他人东西的情况。这种情况有时会 Parents find their children privately took something that is not their own, the first thing to do is not scolding children, not to the children labeled “thief” label, the correct approach is to first understand the reasons for the child appear such behavior, to meet the children The inner needs, and then tell the child the correct way to solve the problem, establish a sense of the rules. There may be cases of elementary school children who do not tell others or take others without their permission. This situation sometimes