孩子不愿意和家长沟通,距离是那么明显地亘在彼此之间,却又令家长束手无策。有没有办法让大家找回彼此的信任,找回属于我们的亲密和默契?孩子成长的过程需要倾听,当孩子生气时,或者发生糟糕的事情时,应该先处理事情,而不是对人责备和批评。我们需要利用每个机会强调他们积极的一面。赞扬孩子的时候,赞赏他们的努力以及说出具体的事情,不要评价性格特点。父母要学会不辱骂的生气方式!在孩子长大的过程中父母要慢慢放手!让孩子自己独立,自己控制自己的生活! Children do not want to communicate with parents, the distance is so clearly between each other, but parents are helpless. Is there any way to get people back to each other’s trust and retrieve our intimacy and understanding? The process of child growth needs to be listened to, when the child is angry, or when something bad happens, we should first deal with things, rather than reproof criticism. We need to take every opportunity to emphasize their positive side. Praise their children, appreciate their efforts and say specific things, do not evaluate personality traits. Parents should learn not to abuse the angry way! In the process of growing up, parents should let go slowly! Let the children themselves, their own control of their own lives!