退休后带孙子是我的活计。我感到对孩子既要爱,又不能纵容;既要让他茁壮成长,又不能对他拔苗助长。为此,我与他的关系就是亦师亦友。现在不少家长希望孩子从小就学钢琴,学外语,学奥数。我觉得还是让社会作为课堂好。于是我在送他上幼儿园和小学读书时,在路途中教孩子学知识。我从马路两边商店开始,教他识字,了解百业百态。遇到有什么画廊和展览会,我就有意识地带他去看,从中了解他的喜好。我觉得作为一个中国人,国学不能不了解,于是我从《百家姓》《三字经》 With grandchildren is my live after retirement. I feel that I should love and indulge my child. It is necessary to let him thrive and not to make mistakes for him. To this end, my relationship with him is also a teacher and friend. Many parents now expect their children to learn piano from an early age, to learn foreign languages ​​and to learn Mathematical Olympiad. I think it is better for society as a classroom. So I was sending him to kindergarten and primary school to teach children on the road to learn knowledge. I started from the store on both sides of the road, taught him literacy, understand all sorts of things. Encounter any gallery and exhibition, I consciously take him to see, from which to understand his preferences. I think as a Chinese, Sinology can not understand, so I from the “family name” “Three Character Classic”