学生在成长过程中,出现错误是难免的,如,说错了话,答错了题,做错了事。但出错不是学生自身的错,出错是学生成长中的错,错误往往伴随着学生的成长过程,学生就是在错误中不断成长,在纠正错误中走向成功的,这就是学生成长的辩证法。教育的错误在于不允许学生出错。在一些家长和老师眼中,说错话、答错题、做错事是不对的,否则就不是好孩子,就不是好学生。这些家长和教师用幻想代替 Students in the growth process, the error is inevitable, for example, the wrong words, the wrong answer, doing something wrong. But mistakes are not students ’own mistakes. Errors are the mistakes in students’ growth. Errors often accompany the students ’growth. Students are constantly growing in mistakes and going to success in correcting mistakes. This is the dialectics of students’ growth. The mistake of education is that students are not allowed to make mistakes. In the eyes of some parents and teachers, it is not right to make mistakes, answer the wrong questions, and make mistakes. Otherwise, they are not good children and are not good students. These parents and teachers use fantasy instead