总能遇到这样一些青少年,他们常常在异性面前面红耳赤,在集体活动中手足无措。究其原因,并不完全是能力方面的欠缺,而是因时常感到自己遭到异性目光的追逐,总想在“钟情”于自己的异性面前留下个完美的形象,对很多事情难于迈出重要的第一步。这里想与有上述情况的青少年朋友交换一下看法:实际上,这是一种心理防御机制——投射在起作用,并非是异性钟情你。 There are always adolescents who often run counter to the opposite sex and have no idea what to do with group activities. The reason is not entirely lack of ability, but because they often feel the pursuit of heterosexual eyes, always want to “love” to leave a perfect image in front of their own heterosexuality, a lot of things difficult to take An important first step. Here’s an exchange of ideas with teenage friends in these situations: Actually, this is a psychological defense mechanism - projection is at work, not heterosexual love you.