[email protected]问:我的女儿快3岁了,平时很少出门和小朋友玩耍,家里来了客人也不主动打招呼,人家问她什么,她更多的是用点头、摇头、做手势等方式来回应。不过,和家人在一起时,她有说有笑,与家里来客人时的表现判若两人。请问,孩子的表现为什么如此大不相同?如何帮助她才好?答:对孩子来说,家庭成员是她从小就接触的,已经非常熟悉,所以在相处时就表现得比较轻松、无所顾及。不过,在陌生人面前她会 [email protected] Q: My daughter is almost 3 years old. I rarely go out and play with my friends. The guests from home come and take the initiative to say hello. People ask her what she wants. She nods, shook his head and gestures. Way to respond. However, when she was with her family, she talked and laughed, behaving as she did when she came in with her family. May I ask, why the performance of children so different? How to help her? A: For children, family members are her childhood contacts, are already very familiar with, so when they get along to behave more relaxed and careless . However, she will be in front of strangers