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有这样一则寓言:大海里有一种最漂亮的彩虹鱼,因为太骄傲自己的美丽而交不到朋友,后来,彩虹鱼受不了孤独,去请教海里的智者——一章鱼,问它如何交朋友,章鱼建议彩虹鱼把美丽的银鳞分送给其它的鱼,彩虹鱼照做了,终于交到许多朋友。这个故事告诉我们一个若想得到,必先付出的道理。彩虹鱼用美丽的银鳞换取了友谊,那我们呢——则要用真诚和智慧。 我们可能都有这样的心理,喜欢和自己性情相投的人交往,而不愿意在不相投的人身上浪费精力,就算因为某种原因必须和“不对路”的人打交道,也不知道怎样打开局面,绞尽脑汁也不知道说点啥。真有那么难吗?
There is such a fable: there is a kind of the most beautiful rainbow fish in the sea, because too proud of their own beauty and friends, and later, rainbow fish can not stand alone, to consult the sea wise - a fish, ask how it Make friends, octopus suggestions Rainbow fish to send the beautiful silver scales to other fish, rainbow fish according to do, and finally handed over to many of my friends. This story tells us if we want to get, we must first pay the truth. Rainbow fish in exchange for a beautiful silver scales friendship, then we - then use sincerity and wisdom. We may all be psychologically inclined to socialize with people of our own nature rather than to waste energy on those who do not match, even if for some reason we have to deal with people who are “wrong” and do not know how to open up the situation , Brains do not know what to say. Really so difficult?