把自己和别人进行对比,人们谓之“攀比”。提起攀比,人们褒之者寡,而贬之者众,其实这是一个误区。对待攀比,我们应该多些青睐而少些白眼,因为只要正确地解决了为什么攀比这个问题,攀比确实是利大于弊或者有利而无弊。人们之所以贬斤攀比,是因为许多攀比者争先恐后地攀比着那些不该攀比的东西,他们不知道自己应该攀比什么,为什么攀比。比如,有的人不顾自己的经济条件一味地和别人比吃穿比阔气,有的人不努力工作却醉心于和别人比关系网,有的领导者 Compare yourself with others, people call it “comparisons”. Mention comparisons, people praise few, and derogatory who, in fact, this is a misunderstanding. To deal with competition, we should be more favored and less blindfolded, because as long as the correct solution to the problem of comparisons, climbing is indeed more good than good or beneficial without any problems. The reason why people jumped because the number of comparisons are scrambling to compete with those who should not compare things, they do not know what they should climb, why comparisons. For example, some people regardless of their economic conditions blindly eat more than others lavishly, and some people do not work hard but obsessed with others than the network, and some leaders