我有一个朋友,不谙世事,不善交际,有一份稳定工作和中等收入。与许多独生子女一样,她在父母的支持下买房买车,一个人住着140平方米的房子,每日按部就班地开车上下班,不知不觉年过三十。也是在三十岁这一年,她放弃了这一切,选择北漂,租房、挤地铁……当然有人会说她傻,可她比以前开心多了。她离开这个小城的唯一理由是孤独,同时,她又不愿像长辈们所说的那样,随便找个人结婚生子告别孤独——那样的话,也许会更孤独。在某些人看来,这种孤独似 I have a friend, I am inexperienced, not sociable, have a stable job and middle income. Like many only-child children, she bought a house with her parents’ support and bought a car. One lived in a 140-square-meter house and drove daily to work step by step, unknowingly over thirty. Also in the thirties this year, she gave up all this, choose North drift, rent a house, squeeze the subway ... Of course, someone would say she was stupid, but she was happier than before. The only reason she was leaving the town was loneliness, and at the same time she did not want to be alone, like the elders had said, to get married and have children alone - and in that case, maybe even more lonely. In some people’s opinion, this loneliness