法国的父母对孩子的教育崇尚爱与严的和谐统一。他们认为母亲必须对子女有着强烈的母爱,同时也必须具备严格的教养方法。孩子从小在父母严厉的管教下学习怎样待人接物等礼仪举止。家庭一般都有严格的家规,如吃饭时,父母不允许孩子随意讲话,孩子晚上不准外出,不能随意交友,父母有权指导孩子选择一起玩的小朋友等。法国的父母们很重视从小培养子女良好的生活习惯,孩子们能做的家务尽量让他们自己去做,并且让孩子知道能承担力所能及的家务劳动是一种光荣。 在法国,如果母亲只是关心子女的冷暖痛痒,那就不是一个理想的母亲。孩子一旦做错事,母亲绝不能宽恕袒护,而应当严加管教和惩罚。法国的母亲们似乎总有一种“在与子女进行一场战争”的 French parents advocate their children’s education in harmony with love and strictness. They think that mothers must have strong maternal love for their children and must also have strict methods of parenting. Children grew up under the discipline of their parents to learn how to treat people and other manners. Families generally have strict rules, such as eating, parents do not allow children to speak at random, children are not allowed to go out at night, not free to make friends, parents have the right to guide the children choose to play with children and so on. French parents place great importance on raising their children’s good habits at an early age, doing their homework as much as possible for them to do, and letting the children know that it is an honor to be able to do their homework within their means. In France, it is not an ideal mother if the mother cares about her children’s well-being. Once the child has done something wrong, the mother must not forgive the kidnapping, but should discipline and punish severely. French mothers seem to always have a “war on their children”