在教育过程中，时而发生学生不接受老师批评，情绪对立，甚至与老师直接冲突或者采取退学的逃避进行为等情况。原因何在？可能是认知原因，学生不明白自己错在何处；可能是心理原因，学生觉得丢了面子；也可能是方法原因，老师言辞不当，伤害了学生的自尊心。其中最让学生接受 In the process of education, students often do not accept criticism from teachers, emotional opposition, even conflict with teachers or withdrawal from school. What are the reasons? It may be due to cognitive reasons. Students do not understand where they are wrong. They may be psychological reasons. Students may feel that they have lost face. They may also be due to method. The teacher’s wrong words hurt the self-esteem of students. Among the most acceptable to students