人处在家庭和社会中,有时候恐怕需要讲点容忍的。唐朝有一个姓张的大官,家庭和睦,美名远扬,一直传到了皇帝的耳中。皇帝赞美他治家有道,问他道在何处,他一气写了一百个“忍”字。这说得非常清楚:家庭中要互相容忍,才能和睦。这个故事非常有名。在旧社会,新年贴春联,只要门楣上写着“百忍家声”就知道这一家一定姓张。中国姓张的全以祖先的容忍为荣了。 People are in the family and society, and sometimes I need to talk about tolerance. The Tang Dynasty had a large official named Zhang. His family was well-known and his name was far reaching. He had been heard in the ears of the emperor. The emperor praised him for his governing family and asked him where he was. He wrote one hundred “bear” words. This is very clear: The family must be tolerant of each other and can be harmonious. This story is very famous. In the old society, New Year’s Spring Festival couplets, as long as the threshold reads, “a hundred family forbearance” will know that a certain family name Zhang. The Chinese surnamed Zhang is proud of his ancestors’ tolerance.