一天,一个多年未见的朋友来到了我这个搞心理学的人家里,懊丧地向我谈了他的不幸:孩子因偷他人的东西而被现场抓获送派出所拘留了。 “愉东西?”“而且还被现场抓获?”真是有点不可思议!因为在我的记忆中.他和他的妻子为人忠厚老实、作风正派,而儿子呢……听完老朋友讲述事情的“来龙去脉”后,我恍然明白,孩子的问题,在很大的程度上恰恰是家长的责任。这对夫妇都很要强,都属事业型,业务上忙得不 One day, a friend who had not seen for many years came to my psychology school and told me regretfully about his misfortune: the children were arrested at the scene for stealing other people’s possessions for detention. “Is it a bit weird? Because in my memory, he and his wife are honest, honest, and son ... ... After listening to an old friend about Things ”context", I suddenly understand that the child’s problems, to a large extent, is precisely the responsibility of parents. The couple are very strong, are all business-type, busy business