现代社会中,人们普遍忙于工作、学业,除了跟自己有直接利害关系的人之外,对身边其他人的关注度都不够,不知不觉间,彼此间的心理距离越拉越大,觉得周围的人冷漠、自私、不关心自己,自己有话不容易找人说,变得孤独、压抑、不快乐。实际上,这些问题都是自己造成的。自己对别 In modern society, people are generally busy with work and study. Apart from those who have a direct stake in themselves, they are not paying enough attention to other people around them, unconsciously, the psychological distance between them grows bigger and bigger, People indifferent, selfish, do not care about themselves, their own words are not easy to find someone to say, become lonely, depressed, unhappy. In fact, these problems are caused by themselves. Do not be yourself