孩子成长需要“表扬” 家庭教育中的表扬同赏识、夸奖、赞许等方式同类,都是对孩子的积极评价,是对其行为的“良性刺激”。 在社会心理学看来,人的社会动机之一是赞许动机,即指人们期望获得他人及社会的赞扬、肯定、承认和鼓励,以得到心理需要的满足。社会赞许动机对人的行为的培养具有极其重要的意义。 Children need to “praise” their praise in family education, their compliments, compliments and praise are all positive comments on their children and a “good stimulus” to their behavior. In the view of social psychology, one of the social motivations of human beings is the praise of motivation, that is, people expect to be praised, affirmed, acknowledged and encouraged by others and the society in order to get the satisfaction of psychological needs. Social compliment motivation to train people’s behavior is extremely important.