给孩子建立一个安全的港湾,就是给孩子一个良好的生存环境,不要使孩子处于担惊受怕的动荡境地。这个生存环境包括:良好的生活、学习、娱乐、交往、劳动环境。建立这个安全的港湾,监护人一方要负主要责任,另一方要做好辅助工作。一个女律师曾对我说过:“在有血缘的家庭中,气氛祥和,这样最好,但如果战事不 To establish a safe harbor for the children is to give the children a good living environment and not to put the children in a state of turmoil that is scared of. This living environment includes: good living, learning, entertainment, communication, working environment. To establish this safe harbor, one of the guardians should bear the primary responsibility and the other party should be assisted. A woman lawyer once said to me: ”In a blood-sheltered family, the atmosphere is peaceful, so best, but if the war is not