“千里家书只为墙,再让三尺又何妨?万里长城今犹在,不见当年秦始皇。”这是清朝中期当朝宰相张英在处理老家与一位姓叶的邻居造房争地矛盾时给家人的书信。就是这封看似打油诗的书信,如春风化雨,有效地解决了两家的争地摩擦。家人即时把墙让后了三尺,叶家为之感动,也主动退让了三尺,两家的矛盾 "This is the mid-Qing Dynasty when the prime minister Zhang Ying in the middle of the Qing Dynasty Zhang Ying and his family in the middle of dealing with a neighbor’s surname dispute Contradictory letter to the family. It is this letter of seemingly frivolous letters, such as the spring breeze, effectively solve the friction between the two. Immediately after the family let the wall after three feet, Ye moved, but also take the initiative to retreat three feet, the two contradictions