上海市宝山区第一中心小学自2006年起确立了“小问题、大礼仪”生活礼仪教育的理念。“小问题”是指小学生在生活中发生的有关礼仪行为问题。“大礼仪”是指融入生活中的礼仪,就是生活礼仪,还可扩大成礼仪生活,与文明、健康的生活方式同义。“生活礼仪教育”是对“小问题、大礼仪”这个形象说法的一种概括,就是把礼仪教育融入到当前学生的现实生活之中。通过几年的实践,我们深刻体会到在社会转型期,礼仪文化存在着继承传统与着眼现代、兼容并包东西礼仪文化以及正视城市与农村礼仪文化差异等问题。我们只有找准了多元文化冲突下生活中常见的小问题,给予学生有效指导, Shanghai Baoshan District No. 1 Central Primary School since 2006 established the “small problems, big etiquette ” concept of life etiquette education. “Minor problems ” refers to the issue of primary etiquette in the life of pupils. “Great Etiquette ” refers to the etiquette into the life, that is, life etiquette, but also expanded into a ceremonial life, and civilized and healthy way of life synonymous. “Life etiquette education ” is a summary of the image of “small problems, big etiquette ” This is the etiquette education into the real life of the current students. Through several years of practice, we have deeply realized that in the period of social transformation, the etiquette culture has the problems of inheriting the tradition and modernizing, integrating the etiquette culture with the east and west, and facing the cultural differences between the urban and rural etiquette. We have only identified the minor problems commonly encountered in life under multicultural conflicts and given effective guidance to students.