收放自如,大抵是人生的一种境界。电影《英雄》里有一段经典独白,其意大致如此:世界太大,当你握紧双手拼命抓住,怎么也无法将它纳入手中,但只要轻轻张开双手,世界便在你的手心。拳头握得太紧时,不妨轻轻张开。有时放下,不失为另一种得到。太多的时候,我们需要放开双手。犹记儿时捕蝶,那翩跹轻快的生 Release freely, probably a realm of life. There’s a classic soliloquy in the movie “Heroes,” which is roughly the case: the world is too big, and when you grip your hands tightly, you can not get it into your hands, but with your hands open, the world is in your palm . Fist grip too tight, may wish to gently open. Sometimes put down, after all, another kind of get. Too many times, we need to let go of both hands. Still remember when butterfly child, that light and light life