是什么让一个人成为你伟大的朋友呢?是因为他支持和接受你的行为方式吗?或者是因为他敢于抓你的痛处,并要求你做得更好?几年前,我经历了一次糟透了的签名售书活动,这让我从一个不同的角度懂得了朋友的真正含义。那次活动没有多少人参加,这是让任何一位作者都害怕且尴尬的事情。更糟糕的是,这是我的第一本书《忘记完美》的首次公开活动之一。尽管我们做了大量的推介,但只来了两个人。我觉得他们只是刚好来了书店,但他们为我感到遗憾,所以一人买了一本。 What makes a person your great friend? Is it because he supports and accepts your behavior? Or is it because he dares to catch your sore and asks you to do better? A few years ago, I experienced a Awful signature book sales, which made me understand the true meaning of my friends from a different perspective. Not many people participated in the event, which is something that makes any one author afraid and embarrassed. Worse, this is one of my first book, “Forget Perfection,” the first public event. Although we did a lot of referrals, only two came. I think they just came to the bookstore, but they were sorry for me, so one bought one.