我是一名小学教师,也是一个5岁孩子的母亲。在别人眼里,做老师的应该最会教育自己的孩子了,摆事实、讲道理什么的,肯定会让孩子心服口服、五体投地。然而,根据自己的切身体验和周围同行们的议论感慨,我发现,多数老师在自己的学生面前是个教育的成功者,而在自己的孩子面前往往是个教育的失败者。在学生面前,教师会时时注意并保持自己“为人师表”的形 I am a primary school teacher and mother of a 5 year old child. In the eyes of others, teachers should be the most educate their children, put facts, what reasoning, it will certainly make children convinced, five-body vote. However, based on my personal experience and the arguments of my colleagues around me, I found that most teachers are successful educators in front of their students and are often losers to their children. In front of students, teachers will always pay attention to and maintain their “teacher” shape