“差序格局”,这是费孝通先生早年对中国社会人伦关系准则的一个总体描述。按照费先生的理解,中国人在处理事情时并不遵守一个“不变的”绝对原则,而是要把握当事人与自己 The pattern of “difference order” is an overall description of Mr. Fei Xiaotong’s guiding principle on the human relations in Chinese society in his early years. According to Mr. Fei’s understanding, the Chinese do not abide by an “unchanging” principle of absolute absolutism in handling matters, but rather grasp the relationship between the parties and themselves