自然规律是不可逆的,身心的成长是必然的,孩子在生理、心理的成长过程中,性别意识逐步加强,渐渐对异性产生好奇心理,此时若不及早给予正确的辅导,很容易走向“早恋”的通路。“早恋”问题一直是中小学教育的难关,曾遇一帮资深退休老教师,闲谈之间交流教学心得,席间有老者感叹:“咱从教三十余年,处理过无数教育问题,但唯独‘早恋’无法根治。学生一旦恋上了,心理的这根刺就很难拔出来,比毒品的瘾更甚,人变得又聋、又盲、又蛮,所以,尽早给以学生打好‘早恋’免疫针,才是最有成 Natural laws are irreversible, physical and mental growth is inevitable, the child in the physical and psychological growth, gender awareness gradually strengthened, gradually curious about the opposite sex, at this time if not given the right counseling early, it is easy to move towards ” Puppy love “path. ”Puppy love “ The problem has always been the primary and secondary education difficulties, had met a bunch of senior retired teachers, chatting between the exchange of teaching experience, between the old man laments: ”We taught from thirty years to deal with numerous educational issues , But only ’puppy love’ can not be eradicated.Once the students fall in love, psychological thorn is very difficult to pull out this even more than the drug addiction, people become deaf, blind, very pretty, so as soon as possible To lay a good student ’love needle’ is the most successful