心理医生我是一名基层排长,每次上级布置交代任务,我都想尽心竭力完成好,正因为如此,日常工作中,经常会与战士为—些生活、工作上琐碎事情争吵,有时候我也知道不对,影响与同事战友之间的关系,但经常控制不住自己。这件事困扰了我很长时间,自己想了很多办法,但就是控制不住自己,请问我怎样才能控制住我急躁、冲动的脾气? Psychiatrist I am a grass-roots platoon leader, every time the higher authorities to arrange tasks, I would like to try my best to do a good job, because of this, in my daily work, often with soldiers for life, work trivial things quarrel, and sometimes I also know that wrong, affecting the relationship with his comrades, but often uncontrollable myself. This matter troubled me for a long time, I thought a lot of ways, but that is uncontrollable, how can I control my impatient, impulsive temper?