瑞德的坏脾气在班上是出了名的,他常常会因为一些小事大发脾气,同学们都对他敬而远之。我留心观察了瑞德一段时间,发现这孩子本性并不坏,因为发脾气只是一种单纯的情绪,它不同于以伤害和破坏为目的的进攻。瑞德发脾气并不是真的要伤害什么人或是破坏什么,而且事后,瑞德也往往为他的暴躁而内疚。比如,有一次,在上体育课时,一位小女孩不小心把篮球扔 Reid’s bad temper is famous in the class, he often because of some minor temper, the students are all at arm’s length. I watched Rhett for some time and found that the nature of the child was not bad, because losing one’s temper was just a mere emotion that was different from attacking for the purpose of injury and destruction. Rhett’s temper is not really to hurt or destroy anything, but afterwards, Rhett often for his irritability and guilt. For example, once in a gym class, a little girl accidentally tossed the ball