在父母眼里孩子就是自己的,常不把孩子的感受、自尊、人格放在心上,对孩子随心所欲,其中最常见是看见孩子做错了事,不由分说就是一顿训斥,甚至打骂。这样的方式教育孩子,其结果只能是导致孩子对父母亲产生惧怕、恐慌、不敢说实话,或产生抵触情绪,甚至逆反心理;孩子也由于不明白错在 Children in the eyes of their parents is their own, and often not to the child’s feelings, self-esteem, personality at heart, arbitrary child, of which the most common is to see children doing wrong, without exception, is a reprimand, or even scolded. This way of educating children, the result can only be caused by the child’s parents fear, panic, afraid to tell the truth, or produce resistance, and even rebellious; children also do not understand because of the error