她的孩子刚刚出世几天,各方面的压力就开始纷至沓来。一位朋友送给她一本名叫《怎样使你的孩子变得更聪明》的书,另一位朋友给她的孩子带来一套“数字卡片”。她的姨母打电话,询问她有没有给孩子报名入一所有名的私人幼儿园,并大声责备道,“你不该再浪费时间了,要知道进那所幼儿园是通向哈佛大学的第一步。”这样的事情对教育家玛丽·休·米勒来说已是司空见惯的了。米勒以前是一所小学的校长,她现在经常撰写有关父母 A few days after her child was born, pressure from all walks of life began to flourish. A friend gave her a book titled “How to Make Your Child Smarter,” and another friend brought a “digital card” to her child. Her aunt calls and asks her if she has enrolled her child in a private kindergarten of all names and reproves loudly. “You should not waste time, knowing that going to that kindergarten is the first step toward Harvard ”Such things are common to educator Mary Hugh Miller. Miller, who used to be the principal of a primary school, now writes about her parents