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在现实生活中,我们常常看到:有些家庭物质条件不错,但是并不幸福,而且子女常常不争气;而有些家庭物质条件较差,子女却照样成才。纵观许多名人的成长史,我们还发现:其中不少人都生长在家境一般,父母对子女十分尽心而又方法得当的家庭里。究其原因,可用四个字回答:家风不同。不同的家庭风气就造就不同的人才。家风并没有什么固定的模式,也并不神秘。我们在探亲访友,走家串户时,常有这种体会:有的家庭生活清苦,但精神充实;家庭摆设不多,却井井有条;相互关心,和谐亲密;待人处事,文明礼貌。
In real life, we often see that some families have good material conditions but are not happy, and their children often fail to live up to their expectations. Some families have poor physical conditions and their children can succeed. Looking at the history of the growth of many celebrities, we also found that many of them were born in families whose parents were very dedicated and well-equipped children. The reason can be answered in four words: different family style. Different family style creates different talents. Family style does not have any fixed pattern, it is not mysterious. When we visit relatives and friends, go home and get in touch with them, we often have this experience: some family life is bitter but full of energy. There are not many family furnishings, but they are organized; they are caring for each other and are in close harmony;