想一矢中的,首先必须认清自我,一定要弄清以下三个问题。你现在是干什么的?你将来要干什么?你过去是干什么的?这三个问题不是按时间顺序从过去到现在再到将来,而是从现在到将来再到过去。其奥妙在于:如果你被雇用,雇主选中的是现在的你,他希望利用的是将来的你,而这将来又基于你的历史和现状。所以,第一个问题,你是干什么的?现在是干什么的?回答这个问题,要点是:你是你自己,不是别的什么人。除非你把自己与别人区别开来,在 If you want to make a success, you must first understand yourself and make sure you understand the following three questions. What are you doing now, what will you do in the future, and what did you do in the past? These three issues are not chronological order from the past to the present, the future, but the past from now to the future. The secret is that if you are hired, your employer has chosen you now, and he wants to take advantage of you in the future, which in the future is based on your history and current status. So, the first question, what are you doing? What is it now? Answer this question, the point is: you are yourself, not what other people. Unless you distinguish yourself from others