前苏联教育家苏霍姆林斯基曾说,学校和家庭,不仅要一致行动,向孩子提出同样要求,而且要志同道合,抱着一致的信念,始终从同样的原则出发,无论教育的目的、过程还是手段,都应保持一致。这段话说明,学校和家庭形成同步教育十分重要。然而最近的一项调查结果却表明,大多数家长疏于和老师沟通,从未主动找老师面谈的家长达79.14%,56.7%的家长从未主动打电话或写信向老师了解或反映孩子情况。作为孩子成长过程中最重要的两个角色,家长与老师若沟通不畅,无疑对孩子的成长与发展十分不利。那么,是什么阻碍了家长与老师的沟通?家长又该如何与老师融洽沟通呢? Former Soviet Union educator Sukhomlinski once said that schools and families should not only act in concert and make the same demands to their children, but should also be based on the same principles regardless of their common-minds and in their faith. Regardless of the purpose of education, Process or means, should be consistent. This passage shows that it is very important that schools and families form a synchronized education. However, a recent survey shows that most parents neglect to communicate with their teachers and 79.14% of them did not take the initiative to seek teacher interviews. 56.7% of the parents never called or wrote letters to their teachers to understand or reflect the situation of their children . As the two most important roles in a child’s growing up, poor communication between parents and teachers undoubtedly has a negative impact on the child’s growth and development. So, what is hindering the communication between parents and teachers? How can parents communicate harmoniously with teachers?