有这么一个说法:当蝴蝶挣扎着脱出茧壳时,如果在茧壳上为它剪破一个小洞,以帮助它早些出来,这样出来的蝴蝶,翅膀永远不硬挺,也没有鲜艳的颜色,再也享受不到飞的乐趣,而且不久就死了。我不想去考证这一说法是否符合科学,然而却认为,做父母的大可借此问自己:你是让你的孩子自己“出壳”呢,还是经常在做一些蠢事而妨碍孩子的正常发育成长? There is a saying that when a butterfly struggles to get out of a cocoon shell, if it cuts a small hole in the cocoon shell to help it emerge earlier, the butterfly that comes out will never be stiff and have no vivid colors, No longer enjoy the fun of flying, and soon died. I do not want to test whether this statement is scientific or not. However, I think parents can ask themselves: Are you letting your children “shell out” themselves or often doing stupid things to hinder their normal development? growing up?