没有面具的人是没有包袱的,个人的智慧也是在这种意义上的自由环境下才能得到发展。回想起来,从我大学毕业到现在已经20年了。我的大学生活是在国内度过的。那时候因为年轻,完全不了解自己,也不了解社会,只知道要做一个好学生,好女孩。什么是好呢,就是不坏,不要让老师同学父母亲属对自己不满意。女孩子在社会上是性别方面的弱势群体,往往处于被动,人们希望的那种传统规范的被动。于是在成长当中就相应地在被动中摸索,做人一面很在意别 There is no burden on those who do not have masks, and personal wisdom can only develop in this sense of free environment. In retrospect, I have been graduating from my university for 20 years now. My college life is spent in China. At that time because of young, completely do not understand myself, do not understand the community, only know to be a good student, a good girl. What is good, is not bad, do not let the teacher classmates parents are not satisfied with their own. Girls are socially vulnerable groups in terms of gender and are often passive in the traditional norms that people want. So in the growth which is correspondingly passive exploration, one side is very concerned about life