随着现代社会的发展,人们的交往越来越频繁,人与人之间的关系也变得越来越微妙。在这种微妙的关系中,很多好的机遇稍纵即逝。如何抓住这稍纵即逝的机遇已经成为很多人不得不思考的一个问题。通常情况下人们时不时的想通过恭维对方来获得一个良机。本文试从语用的角度来对恭维语的应答比较进行分析,发掘恭维这一交际形式的巨大魅力。 With the development of modern society, people’s exchanges have become more frequent and inter-personal relationships have become more subtle. In this delicate relationship, many good opportunities fleeting. How to seize this fleeting opportunity has become a problem that many people have to think about. Often times people want to get an opportunity by complimenting each other from time to time. This article attempts to analyze the comparisons of compliments from the pragmatic point of view, and discover the great charm of complimenting this communicative form.