丁老师:您好!我这几天心里很不舒服,想和您聊一下,听听您的建议。前几天我婆婆去世了,她的儿女都不肯出面办后事,干等着我赶回去和他们一起商量,要我拿出一个处理方案。我的公婆共有三儿一女,按说我丈夫和大哥已经去世,公婆的后事应该由小叔子、小姑子安排。可是他们非叫我一起商量,我推脱不开。 Ding: Hello! I am very uncomfortable these days, would like to talk to you and listen to your suggestions. A few days ago, my mother-in-law passed away. Her children refused to come forward and wait for me to go back and discuss with them, asking me to come up with a solution. My parents-in-law has a total of three children and one daughter. According to my husband and eldest brother, my uncle’s affair has been deceased. But they do not ask me to discuss together, I can not shirk.