Preface遇到孩子成长过程中不顺利的时段,总会有人跑出来说:别着急啊,孩子再长大些、懂事了就会好的,要耐心等待。基于这种论调,好像父母什么都不用做,光是训练自己的耐心、光是等着就可以了。这完全不合逻辑啊!所以我想具体来谈谈,在“貌似等待”期间我们可以做些什么。家长参与越多,孩子成长得越好我是属于那种遇到麻烦,一定要去看清其本尊,及设法寻找一些具体的应对策略的人。在孩子的教养过程中也是 Preface encounter child growth process is not smooth time, someone ran out and said: Do not worry ah, children grow up again, sensible will be good, be patient. Based on this argument, it seems as if parents are not doing anything, just training their patience, just waiting for it. This is completely illogical! So I would like to talk specifically about what we can do during the seemingly waiting period. Parents more involved, the child grows better I belong to the kind of trouble, we must see their deity, and try to find some specific coping strategies. The same is true of children’s upbringing