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俗话说“美言一句三冬暖,恶语伤人六月寒”。所以学会与人交谈是很重要的,尊重对方是进行成功谈话的前提条件。不善交谈,大多是不知道怎样抓住谈话时机。心理学家詹姆士说过:“与人交谈时,若能做到思想放松、随随便便、没有顾虑、想到什么就说什么,那么谈话就能进行得相当热烈,气氛就会显得相当活跃。”学会倾听,不要随意打断别人的讲话也是与人交谈的重要环节,一个人越是有水平,他在听别人讲话时就越是认真。
As the saying goes “a beautiful three winter warm, evil language wounding June cold”. So it is important to learn to talk to people, and respecting each other is a prerequisite for a successful conversation. Poor conversations, mostly do not know how to seize the opportunity to talk. Psychologist James said: “When talking to people, if you can do to relax, casually, no worries, think of what to say, then the conversation can be quite enthusiastic, the atmosphere will appear quite Active. ”" Learning to listen, do not arbitrarily interrupt someone else’s speech is also an important part of talking to people, a person is more proficient, he listened to when people speak more seriously.