许多家长面对着一天天长大并且思维活跃知识增多难以沟通和理解的孩子,束手无策。望子成龙,不希望孩子输在起跑线上的人太多了。大家都在抱怨中国的教育,可抱怨总是直指教育部门,基本不会责备家长和主张家长进行自省和反思。而事实上,多数家长永远也不会认为自己做的有什么不对,望子成龙主要还是为孩子好啊,哪会有错呢?从道理上说,应该没有问题。但为什么大家都感觉我们的孩子没有快乐的童年是个问题呢?为什么孩子会那么逆反呢?为什么高分低能和高学历低能力的现象那么普遍呢…… Many parents are at a loss as to what to do with children who grow up day by day and whose knowledge of active thinking is more difficult to communicate and understand. Succeed, do not want children to lose too many people at the starting line. Everyone complains about China’s education. You can complain that you are always pointing to the education sector. You basically will not blame the parents and advocate parents for introspection and reflection. In fact, most parents will never think that what they are doing is wrong, they are mainly good for their children, and what is wrong? From the truth, there should be no problem. But why do we all feel that our children have no happy childhood is a problem? Why do children react so badly? Why high scores, low skills and low qualifications are so common?