珍惜你手里拥有的,不贪图你手里没有的。一味的贪图那些你踮着脚尖都够不着的东西,只能是把自己折磨得筋疲力尽。在一家咖啡馆里,一个朋友跟我侃侃而谈,他说每次心中对某人某事某物蠢蠢欲动、欲罢不能的时候,每次痛苦不甘、失望沉沦的时候,他都会去火葬场转一圈,每年都会去上那么两三次。他笑,说,那效果,绝好!比什么药都管用,比什么话聊都透彻,让你清醒,让你顿悟。让人匪夷所思吧?去火葬场感受生命的薄脆,感受生 Cherish what you have in your hands, not for the sake of nothing in your hands. Blindly covet those who can not reach your tiptoe, can only be tortured to exhaustion. In a cafe, a friend talked to me. He said every time his heart stalked at something about him, he could go to the crematorium each time he was unwilling, disappointed, and desolate. Every year, go to two or three times. He laughed and said, that effect, absolutely good! Than any medicine are useful than anything else to talk thorough, let you awake, let you epiphany. People incredible it? To the crematorium to feel the life of the crisp, feel raw