小蓉是因为学习问题来咨询的,但是随着询谈的展开,咨询师发现她的问题比较复杂。她学习很努力,成绩比较靠前;可是她并不快乐,内心有疲惫感和自卑感。她的父母对她要求很高,在教育中批评多过鼓励和表扬。所以,她一直就很敏感,追求完美,对自己的要求也很高,总是担心失败和落后。俗话说,“人比人,气死人”,可她就是停止不了与其他人作比较。一旦发现别人强过自己,就开始自我怀疑和自我否定。后来连她的父母都开始发 Xiao Rong is consulted for learning problems, but as the conversations unfold, consultants find her problems more complicated. She studied very hard, relatively good grades; but she is not happy, there is fatigue and inferiority within the heart. Her parents asked her very much and criticized it more than she encouraged and praised in her education. Therefore, she has been very sensitive, the pursuit of perfection, their own requirements are also high, always worried about failure and backwardness. As the saying goes, “people are more angry than people,” but she just can not stop comparing with others. Once you find someone stronger than yourself, they begin to doubt themselves and self-denial. Later, even her parents began to send