凡是做父母的,都不喜欢自己的小孩打人骂人,都希望孩子从小就有教养,彬彬有礼。即使孩子碰到棘手、难堪的问题,也希望孩子能心平气和地坐下来,以一神适当的、文明的方式来讨论他的问题。而实际上,孩子是很难做到这一点的,几乎所有儿童都有打架行为。针对这一现象,父母应该如何处理呢? Any parents, do not like their own children hit people curse, all want children to be polite, courteous. Even if a child encounters a difficult and embarrassing problem, he hopes his child can sit down calmly and discuss his problem in a proper and civilized manner. In fact, it is very hard for children to do this, and almost all children have fights. In response to this phenomenon, parents should be how to deal with it?