伙伴关系对于中学生来讲具有重要意义。首先,中学生通过伙伴关系,能够满足其对自我认识的需要,能够促进其新的自我概念的形成,发展自我同一性。在伙伴身上,青年人看到了自己,为内在的抽象的自我找到了一个外在的表征。通过对比,中学生可以更好地认识自己的长处和不足,更好地把握自己。其次,伙伴关系有助于中学生情感的发展。在伙伴关系中,他们获得了安全感,同时 Partnership is of great importance to secondary school students. First of all, through their partnership, middle school students can meet their needs for self-awareness, promote the formation of their new self-concept and develop their own identity. On the partner, young people see themselves and find an outward appearance for the inner abstract self. By contrast, middle school students can better understand their strengths and weaknesses, better grasp themselves. Second, the partnership helps the emotional development of middle school students. In the partnership, they gained a sense of security, at the same time