即使不让孩子看到父母的争吵,孩子也能很敏锐地感受到父母之间的感情张力。因此,重点不是让不让孩子看到,而是该如何化解。夫妻俩需要共同探索,怎样不争吵就能达成一致?表面的不一致背后,究竟有哪些是一致的。读者来信我们又当着孩子的面吵架了。孩子才5岁,敏感乖巧。我和老公在很多涉及孩子教育的问题上意见不统一。比如马上要面临的幼升小,是托人花钱上公立小学,还是选择离我家很近但质量也不错的一所私立小学;现 Even if the child is not allowed to see the quarrel of the parents, the child can feel the emotional tension between the parents very keenly. Therefore, the point is not to let the children not see, but how to resolve. The couple need to explore together, how not to argue can reach an agreement behind the surface inconsistencies, what exactly are the same. Letters from the reader We fight in the presence of our children again. Children are 5 years old, sensitive and well-behaved. My husband and I do not agree on many issues involving child education. For example, young children who are confronted immediately face the problem of whether trustees should spend money on public elementary schools or choose a private primary school that is close to me but of good quality.