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10多天来,成卫青被自己的一个梦搞得痛苦不堪,尽管他坐在我面前时只是轻描淡写地说“想找我随便问问”。——他梦到和一个女人发生了性关系,而这个女人竟然是自己20年前就离开人世的母亲。这是一个“乱伦梦”。对我来说,这样的咨询并无稀奇,我曾碰到过好几例因在梦中与自己的父亲母亲或兄弟姐妹有过性接触而“无地自容”的咨询者,那都是些处于青春期的少男少女。处理这样的问题没有任何难度可言,适当地讲解疏导就会让咨询者满意而归。但面对成卫青,我却不敢有任何的掉以轻心:成卫青是个有身份的人,他已经过了而立之年。经验告诉我,这样的人不到万不得已不会走进我的咨询室。
For more than 10 days, Cheng Weiqing was so bitter by one of his own dreams that although he just sat down in front of me, he just said casually: “Look for me and ask casually.” - He dreamed of having sex with a woman who turned out to be the mother he had left before 20 years ago. This is a “incest dream”. To me, such counseling is not surprising. I’ve met several consultants who have had sexual contact with their father’s mother or sibling in their dreams, Adolescent boys and girls. There is no difficulty to deal with such a problem, appropriate counseling will make the counselor happy. However, in the face of Weiqing, I dare not have any disdain: Cheng Weiqing is a person of identity, he has passed the first year. Experience tells me that such a person will not come into my counselor’s office as a last resort.