拒绝求婚者往往是件很难对付,并且使对方感到十分难堪和发窘之事。但对南斯拉夫的塞尔维亚人来讲,他们会使用一种独特的方法来对待求婚者。当求婚者用一束表示求婚的红玫瑰花递给女方时,女方就会很有礼貌地请他坐下,并说:“请稍候,我去给你煮一杯咖啡来。” It is often hard to deal with those who refuse to sue, and they embarrass and embarrass each other. But for the Yugoslav Serbs, they use a unique approach to treating suitors. When the suitor handed the woman a bouquet of red roses proposing a marriage proposal, the woman would ask him to sit down politely and say, “Please wait, I’ll give you a cup of coffee.”